Two years ago I had planted sunflowers to feel closer to my Ma, who had green thumbs. She loved plants and had a plant nursery, when…
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How a plant, a cat and conversation brought me from the brink of a mental precipice
Last June, at the height of the covid-19 pandemic and lockdown, I wanted to die. Quite suddenly, I had lost my Ma. Grief fed my…
View More How a plant, a cat and conversation brought me from the brink of a mental precipiceLessons from my grandparents – ‘All work and no play’
…we all need play – children and grown ups alike. It is an integral part to our whole selves – to enjoy, to discover, be creative and process life.
View More Lessons from my grandparents – ‘All work and no play’Grief and fibromyalgia 2.0
This is a post about nothing really. I’ve been getting quieter and quieter. I know. And I’m sorry. Since Mama Claire left for the next…
View More Grief and fibromyalgia 2.0What do we live for? – Grief and chronic illness
Someone said that grief is more or less when you have love to give to someone but they’re not there to receive it.
View More What do we live for? – Grief and chronic illnessMusings on suicide: love might save a life
…every day I decide to live, another person, someone, chooses to die. Their struggle is my struggle, but they have now gone while I still have a chance…
View More Musings on suicide: love might save a lifeRenewed Hope
Easter is my favourite time of year. When I was growing up, we followed certain traditions. My family turned the house upside down and cleaned…
View More Renewed HopeReleasing the broken chains
When the people we love wreck us, when sickness makes living hard and depression & trauma threaten to empty us…We just need remember the awesome power of being set free, and march on
View More Releasing the broken chainsJust hope…
Sometimes we’re not always sure why we bother to hope against the darkness. We cannot see ahead as we feel our hands about, walking…
View More Just hope…Thank you
[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yfwlj0gba_k] Hello my lovelies, I just wanted to say a big THANK YOU for all your positive feedback and likes on The Invisible F. I’ve…
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